It's always hard to figure out what to give a couple that is getting married. Some people say you should spend the same amount on a gift that the couple spent on your meal. But you wouldn't want to get an inexpensive gift for your best friend just because they decided to have a low-key wedding. So how do you decide? What are other customary traditions in gift giving?
-The best advice is to stick to the registry. There is a reason the couple took the time and picked items to put on their registry. If you don't want to purchase something off the registry the next best idea is to find something from the same store. That way, the couple can still return the item and get something they really want without a hassle.
-One thing I like to do, is purchase something off the registry and then find other items at the store that aren't on the registry to go with. An example would be, an ice cream scoop off the registry and then a set of ice cream bowls from the same store. Another example would be a coffee pot off the registry and then some fun coffee mugs that go with. This way they can still return but you were able to be a little creative and surprise them.
-One thing I like to do, is purchase something off the registry and then find other items at the store that aren't on the registry to go with. An example would be, an ice cream scoop off the registry and then a set of ice cream bowls from the same store. Another example would be a coffee pot off the registry and then some fun coffee mugs that go with. This way they can still return but you were able to be a little creative and surprise them.
-Another option is to give cash. In fact, in a lot of cultures it is customary to give cash rather than a gift. But these days it can be tricky to pick an amount. One thing to consider is how close you are to the couple and what your own financial situation is. If you are a close aunt, you may want to give more than if you were just a co-worker. But don't give a gift beyond what you can afford!
-Buying big ticket items is always a hit! However, staying within budget can be difficult. Get a group together and go in on an item. Perhaps the couple needs a large piece of furniture or help in booking their dream honeymoon, going in on a gift with others is a way to make a memorable impact on the couple.
-Think you have a full year to purchase a gift?? Think again! It's a sign of the times! With all the technology to purchase and send gifts there really isn't an excuse to delay a year. These days a gift should be sent within 2 months of the wedding.
What idea's do you have for gifts? What is the craziest gift you received from your wedding? Post comments below! xox mrs. p.
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